February 28, 2011

这篇文章是写给年轻的朋友,刚毕业出来的社会新鲜人!我是在网上看到的,就share share...

上大学时,有一次我们去一位老教授家做客,那时正年轻,豪情无限高谈阔论,仿佛世间之事无所不能。老教授一直微笑着倾听,不参与我们的种种话题。

待大家热情一过,老教授提出要做个测试,我们顿时都来了兴致。老教授问:"如果你去山上砍树,正好面前有两棵树,一棵粗,另一棵较细,你会砍哪一棵?" 问题一出,大家都说:"当然砍那棵粗的了!"老教授一笑,说:"那棵粗的不过是一棵普通的杨树,而那棵细的却是红松,现在你们会砍哪一棵"我们一想,红松 比较珍贵,就说:"当然砍红松了,杨树也不值钱!"

老教授带着不变的微笑看着我们,问"那如果杨树是笔直的,而红松却七歪八扭,你们会砍哪一棵"我们觉得有些疑惑,就说:"如果这样的话,还是砍杨树,红松 弯弯曲曲的,什么都做不了!"老教授目光闪烁着,我们猜想他又要加条件了,果然,他说:"杨树虽然笔直,可由于年头太多,中间大多空了,这时,你们会砍哪 一棵?"

虽然搞不懂老教授的葫芦里卖的什么药,我们还是从他所给的条件出发,说:"那还是砍红松,杨树都中空了,更没有用!"老教授紧接着问:"可是红松虽然不是 中空的,但它扭曲得太厉害,砍起来非常困难,你们会砍哪一棵?"我们索性也不去考虑他到底想得出什么结论,就说:"那就砍杨树,同样没啥大用,当然挑容易 砍的砍了!"老教授不容喘息地又问:"可是杨树之上有个鸟巢,几只幼鸟正躲在巢中,你会砍哪一棵?"

终于,有人问:"教授,您问来问去的,导致我们一会儿砍杨树,一会儿砍红松,选择总是随着您的条件增多而变化,您到底想告诉我们什么、测试些什么呢?"老 教授收起笑容,说:"你们怎么就没人问问自己,到底为什么砍树呢?虽然我的条件不断变化,可是最终结果取决于你们最初的动机。如果想要取柴,你就砍杨树, 想做工艺品,就砍红松。你们当然不会无缘无故提着斧头上山砍树了!"

听了这番话,我们心中似都有所感悟,可一时又抓不住什么。

老教授看着我们说:"刚才听你们纵论天下之事,似乎无所不在话下。可是,当你们踏上社会之后,当许多事摆在眼前,你们便只顾着去做那些 事,往往于各种变数中淡忘了初衷,所以也就常常会做些没有意义的事。一个人,只有在心中先有了目标,先有了目的,做事的时候才不会被各种条件和现象所迷 惑,才不会偏离正轨。这就是我的测试,也是我想要告诉你们的!"


毕业就等于失业
现在想找份工作赚些钱
可是心里却还不停地想继续念书
什么才是目标
目的是什么?
在哪里落脚?

毕竟,
理想跟现实……
谁会明白?

人家不要砸你,就很庆幸了……

February 26, 2011

爱情-LOVE

今天看到了一则童话故事,有些感触:分享下……


小白兔长大了,开始不只希望有胡萝卜,开始期待爱情。

灰兔子很好,总是把胡萝卜给我吃。可灰兔子真的就是我的爱人么?
小白兔背了很多灰兔子送她的胡萝卜,告别了灰兔子,走进了森林……

小白兔最先遇到大雁。
小白兔以为,他们相爱了……

可慢慢地,小白兔发现,她永远无法追上大雁的脚步。
当大雁飞起来的时候,她只能仰着头不停奔跑。
她的脖子很酸,也跑得很累了…小白兔偷偷想到放弃,可是没有说出来……

有一天,大雁告诉小白兔:“我要离开你,因为你不能和我一起飞翔……”

这是小白兔的初恋。她哭红了眼睛,带着剩下的胡萝卜继续向前走。
大雁不是我的爱人。大雁不是我的爱人……

小白兔遇到了大熊。她觉得自己甚至都不喜欢大熊,更谈不上爱情。
可是大熊说,森林其实很危险……要陪她一起往前走,直到小白兔遇到她的爱人~

大熊对小白兔很好,会在天气很冷的晚上把小白兔放进树洞,自己挡在洞口,会在食物很少的时候把自己的晚餐省下来给小白兔做第二天的早餐~

大熊是很好。但是我要怎么告诉他我更需要天冷的时候可以依偎在一起取暖?还有,我不喜欢跟他吃相同的东西……

就在这个时候,大熊遇到了狐狸。狐狸很美。她说自己喜欢大熊,想跟大熊在一起。

大熊告诉小白兔:“我只想跟你在一起,我并不爱狐狸……”
可最后,一天早上小白兔醒来的时候,发现树洞口没有大熊的身影。他不告而别了……
小白兔知道,大熊跟着狐狸离开了。

小白兔整理背包,想要继续向前走。她突然发现,背包里多了很多胡萝卜……

大熊终于想明白我要什么?还是离开了~他不会回来了吧?
也许这样,对我们都很好……

在一个下雨天,小白兔遇到了狼。
虽然她很清楚跟狼在一起,最后受伤的只会是自己。
可是,小白兔还是不可救药地爱上了狼。
每天提心吊胆地跟他在一起~

终于,狼还是在一个下雨天,
挥手赶走了已经遍体鳞伤的小白兔:“我已经厌倦你了,你快点离开……”

小白兔收拾背包,里面的胡萝卜已经不多了。
该不该继续往前走?真的会得到爱情么?
她把背包放在树下,看着外面的风雨……

我是不是不应该爱上狼?
或者,
我是不是不应该走进这森林里寻找我都不确定是什么的爱情?

小白兔开始想念以前跟灰兔子一起的生活。
可是,走了这么远的路,她还走得回去么……?

突然,小白兔听到悉悉索索的声音。
回头去看时,一个灰灰的身影在往她的小背包里放胡萝卜:“我一直偷偷跟着你,只是怕你会吃不到胡萝卜……”

最後小白兔终于明白爱情是什么:-

爱情,就是默默付出而不求回報
愛情,不是自私的佔有
愛情,就只要對方快樂
爱情,就是两个人可以一起分享同一個胡萝卜……


February 24, 2011

我们的爱




[ 远距离 ]
平淡的爱情

只要耐心等待……



~我们的幸福~

February 21, 2011

Sad

Don't worry~

U just go...

and







i'll take care... ...

February 20, 2011

Manchester University of Salford

In UK



He msg me
and told me







he gonna leave... ...

February 19, 2011

no more Brunei trip

originally my buddy with me planned to have a trip to Brunei
but, i think i can't join the trip anymore
:-(

miss up...

February 16, 2011

《我今年,二十七八岁》

My friend shared a linked video clip from Youtube last night in Facebook
I watched it and feel that it's meaningful
so, wish to share with my fellow here


it's very meaningful
describing a 27,28 years old teenager's life




let's enjoy it~~



February 15, 2011

Deleted!!

plan to send it on time since 1 month before..
but finally i DELETED all!!!

...........








February 11, 2011

5kg++


Shit! i'm in 73kg now~
increased 5kg since I came back to Miri..
Crazy right...???
this is the consequence of the celebration dinners
and the delicious cakes & snacks in new year time
i know i ate too much~

Diet plan start...







February 10, 2011

Part time job

I get the drawing from Kelvin on Tuesday night
now still in progressing...

i always remind myself MUST have enough self-control
so that i can finish the drawing
but not online or other entertainment...
even i work at home, have enough free time

but...u know lah..
sometime really cant controlled..
sigh~

another night for today...

February 9, 2011

Secret after the Story

I don't want bring any trouble to you

honestly,
I wish i can....
i tried...
but it's not really...
i can't...


Please tell me...?

February 8, 2011

KB Sushi Trip~

Even Yung and Hong started their work
but the mood for fun still in progress...
Yung, Hong, Agnes, Oldman and me
5 of us went to Kuala Berait, Brunei on 6.3opm
of course is for SUSHI!!! just for sushi~

Yung and Hong went back from work
Rush to bath n get preparing for the trip
you know why to rush?
is because the customs will be closed on 10pm
and my daddy said, scared
it's too rush for us if we are too late

the schedule is:
6.30pm departed from Agnes's house
7.10pm arrived Miri bridge
7.20pm arrived Customs
7.40pm arrived Excapade Sushi

~ORDER AND ENJOY~

9.10pm departed from Excapade Sushi
9.30pm arrived Miri

First time make de crazy decision like tis
now i just knw how to manage the time
No need too rush to go for nextime
Haha~

February 7, 2011

4th of Bunny Year

When people said "Happy New Year~"
i liked to reply "Happy New Year 兔"
That's right! This is a Bunny Year...



4th day, Sunday morning
my daddy fetch me to Hong's house
then we followed Yung's car
just went to our 1st station,Old man's house

maybe we are getting old,lolz...
not like previous, too energetic
now we just can only visited for some of our friends

we went cinema for Mr. and Mrs. Incredible
i had 1 year time didn't get into cinema
quite funny for the story...

we went Mega Hotel KTV lounge room
get high sing k thr~

Oldman started get drunk and non-stop talking with the mic..

~Beers and Games~

it's really a fun night...

February 5, 2011

Happy New Year~

Sorry friends..
I haven't been posting something for a few months, my apology
but that doesn't mean i'm abandoning the blog alright

Year end of 2010 really brought me bad luck
until the last day i stayed in Sibu
My life was totally suck!

Many things happened but it's not to share now
i'll update it slowly when i'm free, ok?

~Wishing all my friends and my family~
A new year start a new life
Just wishing everything 事事顺心
everyone 平平安安

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For my best friends,
don't worry, i'm ok^^
31st of Jan reached Miri
Mood totally changed~felt like my luck changed too^_^
Sibu life "Suck"
i hate
Hope to start a new life here
resigned my job in Sibu..
n i'll start learning more skill to construct the drawing
from my Senior, Kelvin Tan
oh yea~that's my life..